Releasing judgment and expectations to live your best life

I am currently writing from my vacation in Wasaga. We all have experienced changes the past six months since the outbreak. It is now time to recollect our thoughts and channel our energies into something we love to do. Many of us may have lost jobs or faced difficulties in our businesses and maybe watched people close to us going through those changes as well, some were affected more then others. Strangely enough, the minute everyone began to retreat I felt a relieve coming over me. I found that I generally do not function well under the air of expectations of others. No contact meant not having to live up to anyone’s expectations either. For some time, I felt the need to retreat and write more about my experiences or share my thoughts and wisdom on other channels. Just the other day, when I felt like nothing is moving and everything has hit deep stagnation, I turned on my sons Wii game and it was frozen right at 11:11 am, something I used to encounter a lot in the beginning of my spiritual awakening. The numbers 11:11 mean that we are fully aligning with our life purposes and that we are in the flow. It dawned on me that I need to pay attention. Sure enough, shortly after I came across an app for podcasting. It was easy to set it up and a perfect channel for me to share my inspirational messages, psychic insights and greater understanding of life and past experiences. When I was just a child, I used to wonder how I could ever contribute to the world and how I would ever be able to share my messages, back then we just did not have the technologies of today. It was a true mystery to me, but everything happens in perfect divine timing. When it is time for each of us to share our divine light codes, the channels and opportunities will simply pop into our awareness, it will unfold effortlessly. It is never a struggle when we are aligned with our true greater self, all flows with ease and grace. Energy always drives the path of least resistance; this means that we need to be aware of what is flowing with ease and brings us joy and excitement. This is how we can recognize what is meant for us and which way we need to go. I just talked to my partner the other day about this, how we used to wonder when we were children, how we will ever figure out life and what to do or where to go. I was so worried about making the wrong choices that I used to visit psychics over and over again, hoping to gain insights that could lead me into the right direction. Until one day a psychic told me; “You ARE your own psychic, why do you keep going to other psychics? You know everything you need to know.” Sometimes its not easy to trust yourself, especially if you had been made to feel insecure about who you are during your life and your insights were consistently belittled. Today, after years of intense self work post awakening, I have come to a place where I feel secure and intune with my greater self. This definitely was quiet the journey I tell you what. But it was absolutely worth the trouble, to get back home to myself and tune into alignment with my true self. If you are trusting who you are, you can be whatever you want to be. I found that the biggest issue that kept me from really fully be myself was judgment. Judgment towards others and myself. I had many rules, ideations, and judgments towards me because of my upbringing. As long as we are judging others for expressing themselves, we will always carry judgment towards ourselves and vise versa. How we respond to our outsides is a mirror of how we feel about ourselves, as soon as we are able to resolve inner issues, the conflicts resolve and releases all the judgment that has been holding us back from living our best lives. Our own judgments and expectations are the prison bars that keep us feeling unfulfilled. We all carry our own light codes of wisdom uniquely aligned to who we are. Its just a matter of recognizing that and expressing them uninhibited.
I challenge you today, to go within and ask yourself;

• Who am I?
• Where am I holding myself back and why?
• What is my own judgment teaching me?
• What would I do if I let go of my expectations?
• How can I bring more joy into my day and how can I make my work more fun?

​Link to elephant journal article
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Sabrina S Goeldlin – Essential oil advocate & specialist, MLT, Reiki Master & Angelic Medium, Writer & Blogger / Visit www.theangelhouse.ca

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